THE 9 EMOTIONAL DRIVING NEEDS OF MEANING
Behind Every Behavior Is A Need Wanting To Be Fulfilled
If you really want to win at this game called Life then you have to understand the rules in order to score and feel as though Life is happening for you and not too you.
Just imagine how hard it would be to score on a football field if you didn't know the rules, what do you think your odds would be? Yes you would definitely learn through trial and error but just how many of you would give up in the process, out of pure frustration of just not being able to win.
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This is exactly what happens in Life, I see too many people just going through the motions in an attempt to figure it out, if you knew the rules and how to score, would it be easier?
Of course it would be!
Every decision, action and anything you say MUST be guided by these 3 questions!
Is it good for you? Is it good for others? and, Does it serve the greater good?
These 3 questions alone will keep you in alignment of a Growth Mindset and encouraging performance pattern.
The 9 Human Needs Behind All Emotions & Behavior
1. Significance
2. Certainty/Security
3. Variety/Adventure
4. Connection/Love/Belonging
5. Freedom/Independence
6. Growth/Challenges
7. Harmony
8. Self Mastery
9. Contribution/Higher Purpose